I don’t know how many of you saw Billy Crystal’s talk to his son’s classroom in the movie, City Slickers, it’s the one where he tells them what they can expect from life, decade by miserable decade…
Stop a minute and go here to see it …I’ll be here waiting when you get back.
Okay…I think now you can see where this post is heading. That’s right, straight to the OR (operating room) do not pass go or try convince yourself you don’t need it. Pain is real and when it’s constant, it is a pretty clear sign. I tend just to take some over the counter pain meds and drive on. Call it stubbornness or a left over ” Can do” attitude from my army days, but I like to act as if I just put my head down and stay focused, I ‘ll be able to out run whatever twinge, or in this case, stabbing leg and butt pain that won’t go away.
As an example of my former crazy-super-woman belief in mind-over-body madness, I once ran miles and miles every day for three months with a really bad break in my foot. I didn’t know it was broken, I thought I had bruised it wearing high heels at a business conference. So for three months, I got up early every morning, swallowed 800 mg of Motrin, laced up my Nikes, and went out the door.
By the time I saw a Podiatrist, he took one look at my x-rays, laughingly said it was a really bad break and asked if I minded if he used my films ( x-rays ) in his next talk. I thought great …this guy is going to share my stupidity with a roomful of people at his next presentation. After I said okay to being someone else’s life lesson for the day, I asked him what were we going to do about my foot, to which he responded, ” Nothing, it’s already healed. ” Let me say now…my left foot has never been right since. I should have listened to my body when it was sending me such loud messages back then. Maybe that foot would always have been a bit more prone to pain after the break, but maybe not if I hadn’t ignored the pain.
As it turns out, I’m getting another chance to decide what to do now about a pain I’ve had for years, but has become increasing worse over the last few months. I’ve lived with it for such a long time and gone through a fair amount of physical therapy and other non invasive treatments (a little chiropractic), that I just assumed I had a hinky hip and there was nothing to be done about it. I went to a doctor here recently for the first time since moving to England ( my first NHS experience ) to chat about HRT and aging (hey I’m 49…it’s time for those talks) and my hip pain came up in conversation, before you could say boo, my new GP had me scheduled with a surgeon for an evaluation.
After a meeting with the surgeon, I had x-rays followed by an MRA (MRI with contrast) and yesterday I received a letter from the from the bone cutter confirming my GP’s initial suggested diagnosis of FAI along with his recommendation of open hip debridement surgery.
It’s nice to know there’s a reason for all that pain, but I really wish there were more options than the suggested surgery. I’m actually kind of old I think for this solution based on things I’ve read and other sources. I think most of the time you are told to adjust your lifestyle as in swim, don’t run and just wait until you’re old enough for a hip replacement. Given that I’ve lead such an active physical life, this would be a real hardship for me. I’d be looking at no yoga, no running, no rock climbing, no skiing, … would no coast path walking be next ….. the English may call it walking, but sometimes the hills are so steep, you almost feel as if you need a harness and someone on belay so it’s not always pain free either.
I DO NOT want to give up all my fun physical activity at 49!
I’ve had a wonderful response from a dear friend who happens to be a very knowledgeable medical professional with years of experience in oncology and other areas along with some more recent skills in the area of chiropractic medicine. Steven works out of Atlanta most of the time, but his gentle and supportive email to me today made me feel as if he was sitting in the same room discussing the possible options for my treatment and recovery. I really appreciated his thoughts and suggestions and this takes me to the reason for exposing my weak side ( hip) to the world.
If you’re still reading this lengthy medical drama, I’d like to impose upon you to please send this out to anyone you know who has gone though the surgery for a hip impingement…mine would be open as opposed to arthroscopic so that is what I would be most interested in hearing more about, their surgical experience along with their recovery, follow up…and hopefully, their successful outcome.
My actual diagnosis is an ovoid/cam femoral head shape with an associated tear of the labrum.
What a interesting post and very educational because we all tend to ignore our pains until its too late. Shame on us for doing so.
If you would like I can ask on my blog if anyone has had this type of surgery and maybe we can get lucky and get a response.
I have to check with my friends too.
Sorry your having to do this. Hang in there
I am happy to have helped. Keep me posted! Hugs.
I’m sorry to hear about your hip pain — it sounds like you are doing all the right things in terms of considering your options going forward. I so relate to your feelings about not wanting to give up those crucial physical activities at such a young age!
I can’t think of anyone I know who has experience or expertise with this, but will keep you in mind … no words of wisdom other than trust yourself and your instincts — I’m sure you’ll figure out the right next step.
Good luck, bon courage …
Oh my gosh, I also broke my foot and just walked around on it forever. Now it is “healed”, but sometimes still hurts like a bitch. This made me laugh, because I “just live with” pain all the time! It is horrible. I am off to a doctor tomorrow to see why my tailbone has hurt for months. LOL
Good luck. 🙂
It’s good that you’re doing something about it instead of just living with it! Well done!
So sorry to hear of this development 😦
Hope you are able to exhaust all options other than surgery.
If that is the answer, you are so young, you should rebound quickly.
At least you don’t have to worry about the cost. HA
i’m just reading this. sorry you are having to face this surgery, but I can’t imagine the pain you must go through everyday. I have a pretty good friend who, just a month ago, had this surgery ( i’m pretty sure it is the same thing) and she seems to be doing great now.
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