The Gifts Of Friendship

Tell me I’m clever, Tell me I’m kind, Tell me I’m talented, Tell me I’m cute, Tell me I’m sensitive, Graceful and wise, Tell me I’m perfect – But tell me the truth.

~Shel Silverstein

Searching through a virtual mountain of photos of my dear friend Patrice, it was this image that made me pause and get a bit teary-eyed. Taken last September when she was here for a visit, it illustrates what I consider one of the best parts of our relationship … the quiet moments of earnest conversation and sharing.

Not long after Patrice and I first met, she gave me a tour of her home telling stories about different things as we went from room to room in a way very similar to what I might do. Knowing early on that I was a big reader and lover of books, we stopped in front of a bookcase where she had several books that were special to her heart.

At least one was written by Shel Silverstein, an author I knew about, but had not really read and it seemed meant to be somehow that this quote jumped at me when searching for one on friendship this morning. I smiled when I read it knowing that she would understand exactly why I chose this one.

Today is Patrice’s birthday and even though I can’t be there to help celebrate, I wanted to remind her how much I love and appreciate all the ways she has enriched my life with her sweet friendship. I celebrate the light she brings to my life and the many ways she has helped to illuminate the truth.

Happy Birthday, Patrice!

Patrice ... Celebrating the Light!

You can go here to see more photos of Patrice’s trip to Cornwall last year.

4 thoughts on “The Gifts Of Friendship

  1. You captured our Patrice wonderfully. I am married to her cousin, but have known her since she was little (age 5-6). I love her humor and perpetual smile…outlook on life and living. She is indeed a “special” person!!

  2. Lovely post!

    I started the day talking to a friend who lives pretty far from me — she’s in DC and I am in NY — and it reminded me how great it is to have someone to help me sort through life’s issues.

  3. I had lunch yesterday with a friend I have known for over 50 years. We live about 3 hours apart and we still try to see each other several times a year. She knows my whole history, my family and I know hers. It’s a good feeling.

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